(Pictures are taken for representation purpose only) Don't ask questions: Some guys have a tendency to go into the flashback mode and ask uncomfortable questions about what went wrong in the girl's previous relationship. Never ever do that. Do not forget that the girl was in the relationship because she liked him. Hence, answering questions – particularly when her new relationship might have just begun – won't be easy for her. In any case, why should you be bothered about her past? You should be looking at the present and understand that if the two of you are happy and compatible, there is nothing more you can ask for.